gender and sexuality arent real

mani has OPINIONS!!! mani has THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS AND YOU WILL HEAR THEM!!!

recently i've been getting a bit more into my self expression in all ways, a bit of it is with my queer identity

i currently identify as gay and nonbinary, but my identity is a bit more complex than that.

i've actually been questioning my sexuality for a while, but for now gay/mlm is the label im comfortable using. I find gender euphoria in the label, and me being gay doesnt mean that i'm ONLY attracted to men. I find modern definitions of sexuality is incredibly exclusionary and its just NAWTTT for me. I'm gay but im not EXCLUSIVELY attracted to men. Like i currently have a nonbinary girlfriend, i find fem people attractive and am ok with being with them, but i still identify as gay anyways.

Sexuality is something that's incredibly personal but recently (mainly on tiktok) people have been assigning very specific definitions to sexualities and acting as if it's all black and white. Even though gender and sexuality is an incredibly wide spectrum.

i've also been embracing xenogenders and pronouns!!! i personally use them! i looooove them they make me so happy! i love having them as a little gender treat :3 i dunno my gender can't be explained as just... one thing, it's a constant ebb and flow of multiple things. I present femininely but use masculine pronouns. My gender seems to be an enigma to both cis and trans parties alike.

honestly i think my girlfriend said it best, "I want my gender to be pure confusion"

i currently identify as nonbinary, stargender, vamp boy gender, but i usually just simplify it down to nonbinary as to not have to further explain myself because i dont feel like i NEED to explain myself to anyone.

my gender and sexuality doesnt have to make sense to anyone but me, just like your gender and sexuality doesnt have to make sense to anyone but you

i feel like the lgbt community has been becoming less?? accepting????

i dont fuckin know man it's kinda makin me just eugh

get off tiktok, stop debating xenos and lesboys and go suck dick and do ket in the club bathroom or somethin

if youre of age of course

another thing im not too happy about is the sanitization??? of queerness??? i dont have to tone down my gayness or gender expression for straight people, i dont have to "think of the children" because i dont CARE that shits got nothin to do with me if im minding my business.

a common argument i see against nonbinary identities WITHIN the queer community is "this is why cis/straight people dont take us seriously" girl WHO FUCKING CARES

anyway got my ideas out there tear me apart if you wanna